Nerd Night Triumph & Visiting 11 Churches in 3 Months!

Nerd Night Triumph: A Galactic Gathering of Geeks

At our recent Nerd Night event, Halloween took a back seat to an intergalactic celebration of all things geeky. Packed to the brim with arcade machines, comics, board games, and extra rooms screening Lord of The Rings and classic Star Wars movies, the event was a spectacle that transcended the ordinary. Attendees from across all our groups, donned in an array of imaginative costumes, mingled together, transforming the venue into a lively melting pot of nerdy camaraderie. Nerd Night was more than just an alternative to Halloween; it was a testament to the power of fun, inclusivity, and celebrating our shared love for all things fantastical while steering clear of the dark side.

 

Engaging with the Local Tapestry of Faith:

A Journey Through 11 Churches in Three Months

Embarking on a spiritual adventure, we have traversed the sacred halls, coffeeshop gatherings, and community centres of eleven different churches this term. Each visit unfolded as a warm embrace.

At each stop, we shared insights from the Bible and shared the unique work that defines our mission. The warmth of fellowship and the resonance of shared values echoed through every congregation. As we wrap up this term’s church visits, the invitation extends to all. If you would us to visit your church in the next round, please don’t hesitate to let us know.

Nurturing Hearts, Minds, and Creativity: A Spotlight on our three pillars projects

Llandudno Youth for Christ proudly presents our three main regular projects, each catering to the diverse needs and interests of the youth, fostering growth, connection, and creative expression.

  1. Redefine: Fortnightly Fun with Faith

Redefine is not just an event; it’s a community—a thriving space where young Christians and inquisitive seekers come together to redefine what it means to be a young believer. Every fortnight, the air is charged with excitement as laughter, games, and camaraderie fill the room. However, amid the joy, Redefine is a sacred space for reading the Bible, prayer, and heartfelt conversations about the challenges and triumphs of navigating faith in a dynamic world.

The success of Redefine speaks volumes about the hunger for authentic connection and exploration of faith among young people. With capacity reached, the call for more leaders is not just a need—it’s an invitation to be part of a transformative journey, shaping the spiritual landscape of the next generation. Could you be part of this team?

  1. Recess: Weekly Reflections in School

In the hustle and bustle of school life, Recess emerges as a beacon of fun and introspection. This weekly meeting goes beyond the traditional boundaries of faith, reaching out to young minds without a church background. It’s an opportunity for them to ponder life’s profound questions—about the universe, God, and everything in between.

As Recess has also reached capacity, the need for more leaders is palpable. This project is not just about expanding numbers; it’s a chance to guide young minds through the labyrinth of life’s big questions, providing a safe space for exploration and understanding. Could you be one of these leaders?

  1. Show Up and Write: Crafting Creativity in a Digital Realm

Enter the virtual realm of Show Up and Write, an online community that transcends geographical boundaries. Run by three published authors, this project is a haven for young writers, where encouragement flows as freely as ink on paper. The community is a space for sharing, honing craft, and navigating the unique challenges that young writers face. In a world driven by digital connection, this project stands as a shining example of the potential for community to flourish online.

In conclusion, Llandudno Youth for Christ’s three major projects, Redefine, Recess, and Show Up and Write, are not just initiatives—they are pillars of inspiration, growth, and creativity. As these projects continue to flourish, the call for more leaders echoes not only as a practical necessity but as an invitation to invest in the shaping of young lives, providing a foundation for faith, reflection, and creative expression that will resonate far beyond the borders of Llandudno.

Unveiling Unity: Our Annual Celebration and AGM

In our small coastal town nestled between the sea and rolling hills, something extraordinary unfolded this term. We held our annual celebration and AGM, transforming a gathering into a testament of unity, inspiration, and the transformative power of faith and youth engagement.

The venue was not just packed; it was bursting at the seams, with chairs crammed in every available space, and a vibrancy that could only be described as electric. Representatives from over a dozen churches, each carrying the spirit of community, filled the room with anticipation and excitement.

A Tapestry of Voices: Youth Speak Out

One of the highlights of the evening was the candid and heart-warming interviews with four young people. As they shared their stories, it became evident that the impact of our projects extended far beyond what we knew. Their eyes sparkled with enthusiasm as they spoke of their favourite memories, emphasizing the sense of belonging and purpose these groups provide. It was a beautiful reminder that fostering a community where young minds can thrive is not just a goal; it’s a reality being lived out.

Parental Perspectives: A Window into Impact

Perhaps the most touching moments came during the interviews with two parents. Their words resonated with authenticity and gratitude as they spoke about the positive transformations they witnessed in their children. It was a testament to the power of love, support, and community in shaping the lives of the younger generation. As they shared, the room echoed with nods of understanding and appreciative smiles.

Reports that Resonate: Director, Chair, and Treasurer Updates

The AGM was not just a celebration; it was an opportunity for transparency and accountability. Reports from the director, chair, and treasurer provided insight into the organization’s growth, financial stability, and future plans. The atmosphere was one of shared responsibility and collective investment in a vision that goes beyond individual contributions.

Prayer and Praise: Binding Hearts Together

As the evening drew to a close, the room transformed into a sacred space for prayer and worship. Hearts were lifted, and a chorus of voices filled the room in gratitude and praise. It was a powerful reminder that, at the core of all endeavours, lies the recognition of God’s purposes and Jesus as a source of strength which unites hearts.

In conclusion, Llandudno Youth for Christ’s annual celebration and AGM wasn’t just a meeting; it was a celebration of shared dreams, collective achievements, and the undeniable power of God’s presence in unity. As the night unfolded, it became clear that this coastal project wasn’t just a location on the map; it’s a community bound together by a common mission and a shared hope in Jesus.

Enlightening Assemblies at Ysgol John Bright: A Term of Connection and Open-mindedness

In the dynamic world of John Bright School, this term’s assemblies took students on a journey of introspection and open-minded exploration. We now give a week of assemblies every half-term, which comes with amazing opportunities!

September: Plugged into Healthy Relationships

As the academic year kicked off in September, the first assembly set the tone with a theme centred around the importance of being “plugged into” healthy relationships, including the possibility of a connection with a God. To drive the point home, a memorable object lesson unfolded, featuring the unconventional combination of heavy metal music and an electric ukulele. Laughter filled the room as the unexpected pairing illustrated the importance of harmonious connections in our lives, whether with friends, family, or perhaps even with a higher power.

November: Embracing New Ideas and Different Beliefs

Amidst the intensity of Estyn inspections in November, the second assembly took a thought-provoking turn. A real church lectern took centre stage, adorned with a 350-year-old Bible… and a bright white wig and beard. The focus shifted to the significance of being open to new ideas and different beliefs. The historical elements added weight to the message, emphasising the importance of respecting diverse perspectives. It was a timely reminder that our intellectual and spiritual growth flourishes when we open our minds to the richness of the world around us.

We aim for the assemblies we do at Ysgol John Bright to not just be routine gatherings but transformative experiences, that encouraged students to reflect on their connections with others, and to embrace the diversity of thought and belief. These sessions exemplified the school’s commitment to nurturing not only academic excellence but also the holistic development of open-minded, compassionate individuals. We hope that this leads to deeper relationships and more opportunities to share the gospel.

The Week We Didn’t Go Camping: Tales from the Legendary Camp-Not-Camp Extravaganza!

Ah, summer—the season of sun, fun, and avoiding mosquitoes at all costs. But for a group of adventurous souls, this summer was anything but ordinary. Picture this: a week-long escapade filled with nerf wars, inflatable obstacle courses, and enough laughter to power a small city. Welcome to the unforgettable world of Camp-Not-Camp!

We love all the camps we’ve been to over the last decade, but regardless of how amazing they are, we always end up losing touch with a number of young people over summer who don’t feel comfortable at them. So, this year we designed something specifically for the young people we have. Camping with their friends at homes and in gardens, and a week of mad activities!

Attack on Area 51 Nerf War: Storming the Unstoppable Fun Fortress

Our brave campers kicked off the week with an “Attack on Area 51” nerf war, proving once and for all that foam darts and tactical manoeuvres are the keys to intergalactic success. Clad in their most out-of-this-world attire, participants faced off in a battle for the ages. The aliens may have had their defences up, but our fearless warriors had laughter on their side. Huge thanks to Gloddaeth Church for allowing up to completely redecorate for the event!

Cinema Night: Where Popcorn Dreams Come True

What’s a summer event without a cinematic masterpiece? Camp-Not-Camp transformed into a makeshift cinema, complete with blankets, pillows, and enough popcorn to fill a swimming pool. From classic blockbusters to heart-warming animations – in the guise of Lego Batman! – Our campers revelled in a night of big-screen bliss, complete with hot-dogs and popcorn.

Scavenger Hunt Extravaganza: Unlocking the Secrets of the Town

In the spirit of exploration, our campers embarked on a town-wide scavenger hunt. Armed with clues, maps, and the burning desire to outwit the competition, they scoured every nook and cranny. With six local businesses in on the action, the hunt was a quest for treasure, hidden in plain sight. Who knew that the local department store, Clares, held the key to victory?

John Bright School Hall Spectacle: Bouncy Castles, Obstacle Courses, and Surf Simulators, Oh My!

The grand finale unfolded in the Ysgol John Bright main hall, where an 80ft inflatable obstacle course, a towering slide, bouncy castles, sumo suits, and a surf simulator turned the space into a playground of epic proportions. It was a battleground of laughter, triumph, and good-natured chaos. The only requirement for entry? A heart ready for adventure.

Feasts Fit for Champions: Breakfasts, Subs, and Shared Stories

No adventure is complete without hearty sustenance, and the camp-not-camp crew knew how to refuel in style. Zoom breakfasts, in-person feasts, and a monumental Subway platter kept everyone energized and ready for the next escapade. Because when you’re conquering obstacle courses and storming imaginary alien bases, you need fuel that packs a punch.

Sharing the Gospel with a Side of Laughter

In the midst of the uproarious festivities, there were moments of reflection and inspiration. The camp-not-camp experience wasn’t just about conquering inflatable behemoths—it was also an opportunity to share the gospel in unique and meaningful ways. Korey from Colwyn Youth for Christ brought the message home on the last day, reminding everyone that joy, faith, and adventure can go hand in hand, so why not give Jesus a chance?

In the end, Camp-Not-Camp wasn’t just an event—it was a week-long journey into the heart of community, laughter, and shared experiences. As the summer sun dipped below the horizon, our intrepid campers walked away with memories that will last a lifetime. Until next year, when we once again trade the quiet of the campfire for the roar of the inflatable obstacle course. Camp-Not-Camp, you were a wild ride, and we wouldn’t have had it any other way!

 

Summer at Llandudno Youth for Christ

We kicked summer off with most epic event. It was ‘Party Bingo’ night but trust me when I say it was nothing like your usual game. We pulled out all the stops – there were people busting moves on the dance floor like they were in a music video, and others diving headfirst into some intense games. And let’s not forget about the fancy dress theme – this time we decided to go all out and come dressed as the 90-year-old version of ourselves. Picture this: canes, wrinkly skin, and those crazy oversized glasses that look like they came straight from the future. It was hilarious! The whole night was filled with laughter, good vibes, and a healthy dose of friendly competition. Seriously though, what a great way to start summer.

That’s not all though. We have a whole raft of summer events this year. This starts with a week of ‘Camp-Not-Camp’, and if you’re wondering what that is, then we all hang out together for a week filled with amazing events, but we camp at home, in gardens, with friends.

So, what’s on that week? First up on our list is a legendary Nerf war, where we’ll battle it out in with foam darts and tactical strategies. But before indulging in the chaos, we’ll kickstart that day with breakfast on Zoom, connecting virtually to share a meal and catch up on each other’s lives. To explore our town in a unique way, we’ve also planned an exhilarating round town scavenger hunt (after another breakfast of course, in person this time) that will take us to hidden gems and secret spots, providing endless excitement along the way. As dusk settles, we’ll transform into movie buffs for a cinema night, accompanied by popcorn and laughter.

The last day will be the big one! We’re putting on a fun-filled day with inflatables at Ysgol John Bright. We’ll start off by challenging each other on an exhilarating 60ft inflatable obstacle course. It will be hilarious watching everyone try to make their way through the inflated tunnels, climbing walls, and slides. After that, we’ll strap ourselves into sumo suits and get ready for some belly-bumping action. To “cool down”, we’ll then hop onto a surf simulator where we will test our balance and agility while riding imaginary waves. And what’s a day of adventure without delicious food? We’re going to indulge in a Subway platter packed with mouth-watering sandwiches and sides that will recharge us for more fun-filled activities. Korey from Colwyn Youth for Christ will join us to give a gospel message and share one of his favourite American youth group ball games, ‘GaGa Ball.’!

Of course, no summer is complete without a sizzling BBQ party filled with deliciously charred burgers and mouth-watering grilled veggies to satisfy our taste buds. We’re also going to run a full-on games party mid-summer, and a ‘late nighter’ project that will run until midnight.

We hope this Summer will create lifelong memories for so many young people! We know that a lot of them won’t be able to go on holiday this year, and can’t manage the usual camps either, so we’re going to do everything we can to show them they’re loved.

Please be praying for us! It’s a lot to juggle (and, let’s be honest, there’s a lot that could go wrong!) and we hope that these projects will help young people grow into a closer-knit community, and one that will draw nearer to Jesus.

What to help support what we do? Consider giving to keep this work going and growing! 🙂 Thank you.

Free training: Becoming a “youth friendly” church.

Free training night: Monday, 17th April, 6-8pm. Becoming a “youth friendly” church.

Thinking proactively about becoming a youth-friendly church is an important step for any congregation that wants to engage with more generations. This free training will provide valuable insights and practical tips on how to create a welcoming environment for young people.

The event will cover topics such as understanding the needs and interests of young people, creating engaging programs, building long-lasting relationships, and developing effective communication. Participants will also have the opportunity to network with other churches and share their own experiences and ideas.

By attending this training event, churches can learn how to better connect with young people in their community and create a space where they feel valued and supported. This can lead to increased participation in worship, stronger relationships between generations, and a more vibrant and dynamic congregation overall.

There are eight spaces left, so please let us know at llandudnoyfc@gmail.com if you’d like to come.

All the best!

Tim & the Youth for Christ team

Check in on our three weekly projects…

Alongside our many events, one-offs, and schools work, we have three super-regular projects at Llandudno Youth for Christ, Recess, Redefine and Show Up & Write. Let me give you a quick update!

Recess

Recess is our weekly group in school at Ysgol John Bright. It’s is probably our longest standing project. It was running at lunch times before our director Tim took over over 12 years ago!

Every year Recess reinvents itself a little, depending on what’s happening in the school timetable and when young people are around. However, it has always been a regular place for young people to hear about Jesus for the first time.

Over the last twelve months, however, Recess went through its biggest reinvention yet! We now meet after school rather than during lunchtime, and rather than meeting in a classroom, hidden down a corridor somewhere, we meet in both the library and the main school hall. This has given us great opportunities to do larger events, as well as things like alter the seating to fit the theme and to add games like 4-square which wouldn’t fit in a small room.

In September, off the back of some assemblies we have an almost entirely new group of young people. So, every Wednesday after school between 10 and 20 of us meet to have fun and to connect with each other about big topics.

What we do at Recess is help young people explore big issues around life, the world, faith, God, community – and their relationships in these things. Our job really is to help them talk and to help them think. This creates an environment where they feel safe to consider different points of view and share their own without fear of ridicule. This also means that we can talk really honestly and clearly about our faith in Jesus.

We’ve taken this group on some trips, some have connected to deeper groups, and some of them have also joined our Saturday Café young volunteer team. These are brilliant young people, and we thank God every day that we get this opportunity to journey with them and support them at school

Redefine

Redefine is another one of our long-standing projects. We meet once a fortnight with a small group of 15-20 young people who would either call themselves a Christian or at least be open to learning more about Jesus. This is a broad discipleship group where we aim to help young people take responsibility for their own faith. We share with them not just what the Bible says but how to read it for themselves.

We have a great team of volunteers who lead small groups and games and help young people really connect with each other and with the theme for the day. I say ‘theme’ but we’ve actually been reading the book of Galatians for almost two years now. There’s so much in it to unpack, and the young people love that we’re getting really deep into the Bible and answering questions that maybe they’ve not asked anyone before.

Thinking about team, every one of them are gifted at sitting down one to one or in small groups of young people and helping them feel comfortable, safe, and secure. We are so fortunate to have these amazing volunteers at Youth for Christ.

Redefine is our first group to move into the new venue in The Garage and so far, it has been absolutely brilliant!

Show Up and Write

Show Up and Write is a project we started in lockdown as an online support group for creative writers. It now continues to meet once a fortnight online using Zoom, with a small group of young budding novelists.

Run by three published authors and headed up by Katie – poet, writer, and editor extraordinaire – it has been one of the most innovative and encouraging projects we’ve run. One of the most amazing things about Show Up and Write is it’s highly targeted, because we’re serving in a way that meets a very specific need.

Jesus is called the Word, God created the world by speaking words, and we believe that God loves creative writing. Show Up and Write is a chance to celebrate creativity and have a lot of fun with storytelling. We love it!

Want to get involved?

Do any of these projects take your fancy? We’re always looking for new volunteers to support young people where they are at. Please do get in touch: llandudndoyfc@gmail.com

 

 

Photo by John Schnobrich on Unsplash

Why do young people leave church?

It’s an important question, right? Why do young people leave our churches and youth groups when we invest so much into their care? It’s tragic when a young person feels they can no longer pursue their faith, when they’re already connected with other Christians. So, what are the main reasons this happens?
This has been such an important question to me for a long time, so I decided to find people who left church when they were teenagers and hear their stories.

So, for the last two-and-a-half years I’ve been speaking to ‘ex-Christian youth’. These are people who chose to leave their churches and youth groups while they were still young people. I asked them to share their stories and tell me what the key factors in their decisions were.

Some of their responses I’d expected. Many, for instance, gave me some variation of ‘it was boring and irrelevant’. However, others really took me by surprise, such as ‘your love came with too many caveats.’ That’s quite bold, right?

Now, not all young people have these same experiences of course, and many young people grow up loving their churches without any of these experiences. However, it’s still really important for us to listen and to hear what these ‘ex-Christian youth’ have said, and then think together what we could do to help all young people feel like church is a home.

I’d like to share a summary of what was said with the Church.

So, on the 4th Feb, from 9-11am, in The Garage Youth Centre, New Street, Llandudno, LL30 1NL, I’ll be presenting some of these findings and leading a conversation about what we could do.

If you’re interested in coming along (spaces are limited), please email llandudnoyfc@gmail.com.

Feel free to share this with pastors, elders, youth workers, parents, volunteers… whoever you feel might be interested.

All the best!

 

We built a new youth centre!

We’ve only gone and done it! We have built an amazing youth centre right slap bang in the middle of Llandudno.

We’ve always had a space. From 2009-2014 that was Reverb Youth Bar on Madoc St. It was brilliant, it was cool, it was state-of-the-art, it was like a Costa Coffee, but just for teenagers – but it was ultimately too small, too expensive, and with only one year lease extensions, ultimately too short term.

So, we packed up and moved to Ty Llywelyn Community Centre. This was a completely different beast, and a beast it was… it was enormous! it had multiple rooms, a couple of halls, an office, storage space, and even an outside football court. It was also right on the doorstep of Ysgol John Bright. We enjoyed six happy years there, but it also wasn’t perfect. We had to share the space with many other users, so it wasn’t really “ours”. This meant that every event and every project that we wanted to run needed a lot more set up in order to put our own stamp on it. It was hard work running projects when you knew that you were going to be there for hours beforehand and afterwards, just to make it work. So, during COVID we began our search for a new space.

At this point we want to give a big shout-out to Gloddaeth Church and the Presbyterian Church of Wales. They have made it possible for us to create a brand new, bespoke youth centre. We have taken over the halls adjacent to Gloddaeth Church. This used to be a mechanic’s garage, and once upon a time it was Llandudno’s firehouse, when the fire engines of the day were horse and cart. Our office now is in the old hayloft!

So, what is it and what have we done?

For the last ten months we have worked incredibly hard to make a professional-quality space for young people. It has a small stage with guitars and a sound system. It has three different seating bars, including one attached to a kitchen with hot chocolate machines. It has a large screen TV with computer games. There’s a pool table, table football, arcade machines, and the best hanging chair you’ve ever seen! There are bookcases full of boardgames, trolleys full of art supplies, and in case they weren’t sure – a giant neon sign that says “You Are Welcome.”

Upstairs we have built an office, a small group area, and a place for team to hang out. We’re now in the process of converting the second large upstairs room into a mixture of storage and creative space, including hot-desk homework zones.

We’ve worked really hard to make sure it doesn’t look like just another run-down hall. Everything has been finished very well, using high quality materials that should last for years.

To be perfectly honest, it’s not totally finished yet. We’ve just replaced all the lights and we have begun to have some pilot youth groups to test it, but it’s still going to take a few more months before we’re satisfied that it’s totally ready to roll.

Check out these photos cataloguing some of the journey – and scroll down to see the ‘nearly finished’ product!

Let’s just say this has been a huge undertaking and we are so grateful for all the support we’ve had. We’ve had incredible volunteers and donors supporting this work – that said, now the hard work really begins.

As I hope you can tell, we have tried to do this right. We want to provide young people with the best resource we possibly can. We don’t want to create just another hall with peeling paint, and some broken down games. We want young people to feel so blessed by this space!

Earlier in the year I travelled to London to visit some of the best youth centres in the UK. I was blown away by what I learned. There is so much opportunity for us to do this well!

So, here’s my direct appeal: Please consider becoming one of our monthly donors. To create and run this centre well and seize the opportunity with both hands, we really do need to raise another £350 a month. Could you become one of our monthly partners? If 35 more people were to give £10 a month (a cup of coffee a week!), then we’d be there! Could you help us out?

Also, linked to this, is a slightly cheekier direct appeal to churches. Please consider making Youth for Christ one of your missionary giving partners. We want Youth for Christ to be fully invested in by the local community. We are very grateful for the support we get from local churches, but like many of these organisations most of our support comes from very few sources. Help us spread the load by becoming part of this journey. At your next eldership meeting, consider asking the question whether your church could budget some financial support for Youth for Christ to help us connect young people of Jesus in this area. That would be amazing!

Now – check out the photos!